Over the last four rounds, I’ve twisted myself into a psychological swing pretzel. I’ve had this happen before. I go to the golf course with a swing thought I’m going to work on for the day and usually strike the ball poorly, but sometimes find a new thought late in the round that allows me to finish strong. Then the new thought becomes the focus for the next round. This perpetuates a viscous cycle of bewilderment as I travel through the swing thought wilderness. Does this happen to you?
Not sure why I do this but it’s usually late in the season, and it happened again last weekend. After a predictably frustrating ball striking day, I decided to go back to what my pro and I had worked on in our last lesson, and bingo. It was late in the round again and I had just debunked all the solutions and fixes I had been working on for a month, with some common fundamentals passed down my instructor’s trained eye. I’ll chalk this up to COVID because I had a lesson left on my 2019 package, and rather than taking it in the early spring and following up every month during the season, I took my first and only lesson in the summer, after restrictions were loosened at our courses. Rather than signing up for more lessons, I tried to self-medicate. Some people can do this but there’s a reason we pay good money to these trained professionals and why most of the instruction on the internet is free. YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR.
So where does this leave me? There is more playable weather forecast for the DC region in November, but I’ve shut my game down. It’s time to empty the mental recycle bin and not refill it for a while. I’m hoping this year’s winter is as mild as last year because I was able to practice and play in January and hit the ground running for my February Myrtle Beach trip. That trip is planned again this year, but I’m wondering if it’s going to happen with the current state of the virus.
Sometimes it’s best to give your game a rest and recharge your physical and mental batteries, even though you can keep playing.
Do you take time to refill your psychological tank? Have you shut it down for the year?
I played Bayside on Saturday, October 31, 2020. The course is a Jack Nicklaus design located in Selbyville, Delaware that has been open since 2005 and is the signature piece of the broader upscale Bayside living community. The course is located four miles west of Fenwick Island, DE and is convenient to players coming from either of the Delaware or Maryland beaches. Troon Golf manages the course and players familiar with other Troon facilities will notice a consistent look and feel. My experience at Bayside was a mixed bag.
I had called for a tee time three weeks prior and booked 1:24 pm. During the call, I was asked if I was a member or a visitor because different times and fees are available depending on the classification. I booked as a visitor and learned that times prior to 12:00 noon were reserved for members. However, since the course wasn’t expected to be busy, I was offered an earlier time at a rate of $117. I was looking for something less expensive and settled for $79 at 1:24 pm.
I had visited the course on Friday to familiarize myself with the offerings and observed the fabulous practice facilities.
Licking my chops to try out the range and short game area before my round, I showed up at noon yesterday to get in a good warm-up and was promptly told that there was no record of my booking. Ack! However, they had a couple slots in the 1:24 tee time, so I booked and while displeased, considered it a wash. As I was settling up, a cart attendant came into the shop and indicated I could go now if I wanted to as a single, because there was an opening. I thought if I waited until 1:24 pm and the round went long, I might not finish in the light, so I accepted his offer. In retrospect, this was a mistake because I rushed a 10-ball range warm-up and went out unprepared. I quickly found myself in the awkward position of playing cold and managing on a wet course playing cart path only. I struggled with where to hit it on an unfamiliar layout, taking pictures for this review, and being sandwiched between two foursomes. Whew!
On the first tee, the starter set me up with a yardage guide, helped me decide which tees to play, and gave me a few pointers on how to play the first hole. I selected the members tees at 6,418 yards and 71.4/139 and promptly piped a drive and ended up with a routine par on #1. That turned out to be the end of my routine day at Bayside.
Most Nicklaus courses have a familiar theme of well-placed fairway bunkers on your tee shots and Bayside was no different. What was difficult was the fairway landing spots narrowed past the bunkers on several holes, which offered less reward for clearing these obstacles. I was left to wonder where the correct landing point should be after arriving at several tee shots. I drove it well, but it was so wet out that most of my tee shots were landing even with the bunkers and didn’t roll out. What I liked was that the holes had an abundance of clear targets that fit my eye well.
The fairways were wet but in great shape with the surfaces were mowed tight and smooth all the way up to the approaches. The routing on the par-4s and 5s often had forced carries and lateral penalty areas to deal with. You need to strike your irons great to score out here, and unfortunately, I didn’t. I was left with more than a few greenside pitches off tight lies that required height – which turned out to be a tough shot. Some practice of these lies in the short game area would have been beneficial.
The putting surfaces were smooth and running medium fast despite the moisture but were not tricked up. Pete Dye loved green trickery but it’s not Nicklaus’ style, and Bayside was no exception. I liked these greens and putted with confidence. In short, I drove it well, rolled it good, but couldn’t do anything in between.
Value (2.0 out of 5.0)
As I was struggling with playing cart path only (not the club’s fault because of the wet conditions), I thought it would have been beneficial for the carts to be equipped with GPS. Would have been a huge time saver while figuring out where to hit it, and determining club selection. For the prices charged in late October, this is not a great value. I believe it’s even more expensive in season. They can probably charge what they are getting because of high demand and to keep that exclusivity feeling for the members, but I’d like to see them adjust prices downward. Eagles Landing, in Ocean City, is more scenic and is a much better value, albeit without the driving range.
Facilities (4.0 out of 5.0)
Bayside has a great full-service club house, complete with locker rooms and restaurant. The cart barn, bag room, and indoor portion of the driving range (Overhang) are laid out well and make staging and starting a breeze. There’s a learning school known as The Hammer Academy, which I got a kick out of. And of course, the short game area has ample room to practice your chipping, pitching, and bunker play. Conditions were pristine. There is a putting green by the club house and another next to the first tee. Nicklaus clearly knows what the upscale public player likes and has delivered. Small ding because of the loud music being piped into the driving range area, but I spent about two minutes warming up, so it didn’t really matter for me. If I were seriously working on my game, I’d prefer to do without.
After my round, I chatted with some ladies sitting around the grill’s outdoor fireplace and they were thrilled to have their picture taken for a review of their course! It seemed like the facility was a good gathering spot and enhanced the sense of community.
Customer Experience (3.0 out of 5.0)
Obviously, the failure to record my tee time was a major problem for the pro shop. I would have preferred a simple apology, but they made excuses, like I might have mistakenly called Baywood Greens instead. No fellas, I knew who I was talking to. Good customer service is simply owning a mistake and moving on. Elsewhere, the cart attendants were great, as was the starter, and the on-course beverage cart visited me four or five times, which was appreciated.
I made a mistake going before my scheduled tee time. Should have used the ample practice facilities and warmed up properly, so that is on me.
As I was meandering through the round, I noticed the abundance of houses and new construction on most of the holes. The par-3, 13th was out on its own with great views of the bay, which I found refreshing. But I do prefer a layout without the development.
I noticed that the only COVID restrictions were on wearing masks in the clubhouse. All ball washers and bunker rakes were available, and there were regular cups and pins to be pulled. It felt safe and was great to be playing real golf again.
Overall Rating (3.0 out of 5.0)
Bayside is a challenging well-conditioned layout in a good location. Bring your best ball striking game or you will be in for a long day. I’d like to try it again, now that know where to hit it and hopefully wouldn’t be playing cart path only. I wouldn’t advise in season play here because of the high greens fees and medium level value. Go for an afternoon round in the Fall or Winter and enjoy.
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