My dear friend and playing companion for the last 30 years, Jim Rush, passed away on Wednesday, October 6, 2021. Folks that knew and played with Jimmy recognized what a selfless, generous, kind, and devoted man he was. His family, friends, and the local golf community have endured a tremendous loss.
I first met Jim in the late 1980s at Needwood Golf Course. He used to work as a construction foreman for the organization that maintained the course and a handful of other municipal tracks in Montgomery County. Jim and another friend, Mike DeOrio, used to pick golf balls at the range and play together. I assimilated into their group and a lifelong friendship was born. Over the course of the next three plus decades, Jim and I played many weekend rounds and charity events together. We traveled annually to Myrtle Beach and played the RTJ Trail in Alabama, as well as the Boyne Resort in Michigan. Every Fall, Jim would come with me to my beach house in Bethany Beach, DE to winterize the place and play our little mini-Eastern Shore Tour. I will miss him.
Along with golf, Jim was an avid varmint hunter and would travel to Ohio, Nebraska, and shoot in the local farmlands of Maryland. Jim was fond of telling the same hunting stories more than once. I remember on long drives to out of town golf courses, he educated me over and over on the Coriolis’ effect (earth’s rotational effect on moving objects) and what this had on some of his long hunting shots. I am now an expert 🙂 Golf, hunting, travel, sports, politics, family life, his daily to-do list, and just about everything else was fair game for a discussion. I will miss him.
Jimmy was a man of many details. He always organized the annual Myrtle Beach trips, and even after everyone had cellphones and cars with GPS, showed up at our staging area with 10-page printed copies of directions, maps, and lists of tee times. Jimmy was late to the technology party but eventually got there. His laminated index card with 15-20 swing thoughts was legendary and was always in his bag. I will miss him.
Jimmy wasn’t shy and had the gift of gab. As readers of this blog know, I like to review golf courses and feel that the best reviews are done when the course is not aware they are being evaluated. One year, we rolled into Baywood Greens in Delaware, and I told him that I’d be reviewing the course and to keep it quiet. He strolled right up to the pro shop attendant and introduced me as a course reviewer from All About Golf and said that their course would be evaluated during our round. They welcomed us and immediately paired an assistant pro with us for our “enjoyment.” Thanks Jimmy – I will miss you.
Jimmy had fought and beat the scorn of cancer for many years. I won’t dwell on his illness or his courageous fight but watching him through the surgeries and treatments and to see him keep taking lessons and trying to improve was inspiring. We used to lovingly tease him that he was belting it past all the other one-kidney guys out there. Eventually his illness cut short his time on the course, and I believe the last time we played together was at Blue Mash in May.
Jim and I played together, practiced together, filmed each other’s swings, and compared lesson notes from each of our instructors. When he stopped playing, I felt the void and my game went downhill fast because I lacked the motivation Jimmy provided to improve. I’ve only played three rounds since the beginning of August and the last was over a month ago.
Here’s a video of Jim “moving that pill” at Blue Mash from 2017: https://youtu.be/Ao-DtUl6uVw
I’m not sure how this story will end and all I know is that I miss you buddy, rest in peace.
8 thoughts on “Jim Rush: Friend and Player – RIP”
Sorry for your loss. I have a few golf buddies that I would miss dearly so I’m sure it’s a big blow for you.
Thanks Catherine. This is hard to take and will require some time to get myself right.
Thank you so much for writing this. My uncle Jim was a loving, caring, thoughtful and generous man. I am so glad to hear these thoughts and know what a fun group of friends he had to enjoy his favorite game with. Thank you.
Amanda, thank you for stopping by and adding your perspective. My deep condolences to you and your family. Jim was a great friend and we are all struggling to make sense of this loss.
Brian, sorry for your loss. Jim sounds like an awesome guy. You and Jim’s family are in our prayers.🙏
Thanks Jim. The void I felt over the last six months and now after his passing is difficult to describe. I know it’s had a detrimental effect on my game and overall desire to play. Neither has been good. Just need to give it time.
Appreciate your thoughts and prayers.
Sorry for your loss, Jim. It’s been awhile for me but I lost a good golf buddy about 25 years ago, suddenly, and it leaves a huge void. It’s part of life, but it is by far the hardest part. Again, my sincere condolences.